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    Re: The Relationship Thread

    Post by Něthing_At_All on Mon Jun 14, 2010 3:31 am

    He read it. He and I got on facebook last night and talked about everything. I've finally decided to give up. I realized that no matter how much he cares about me, it's never going to happen. I'm moving on, as you saw in the WAYT thread.
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    Re: The Relationship Thread

    Post by Hopeless Heart on Mon Jun 14, 2010 5:26 am

    Good for uo Em!

    I'm glad you had better luck with your letters than I ever had with mine.


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    Re: The Relationship Thread

    Post by Něthing_At_All on Mon Jun 14, 2010 5:27 am

    Thanks! I'm glad he didn't hate me for everything I said.

    I hope your luck gets better! Very Happy
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    Re: The Relationship Thread

    Post by Hopeless Heart on Mon Jun 14, 2010 5:58 am

    Meh I'm good with my luck

    By the way I just found something... your advice in this thread "Re: Epiphanies/Revelations" what you said applies to you and may help you fully get over this guy, even though you've started now.


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    Re: The Relationship Thread

    Post by Něthing_At_All on Mon Jun 14, 2010 6:04 am

    Which advice? I'm looking through the thread and I can't figure out what you're talking about.
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    Re: The Relationship Thread

    Post by Hopeless Heart on Mon Jun 14, 2010 6:13 am

    In like the last two pages, probably should have mentioned that, my bad


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    Re: The Relationship Thread

    Post by Něthing_At_All on Mon Jun 14, 2010 6:22 am

    Oh, okay I read it.

    The only difference is the reason I need to get over Jake is because he can't commit to me the way he wants to, or something. I'd quote him if you wanted me to. Brii needed to let go of him because he only wanted things from her. Jake has never asked me for a single thing. Except when he asked me to love myself. There were things he obviously wanted, but he never asked for them.
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    Re: The Relationship Thread

    Post by Hopeless Heart on Mon Jun 14, 2010 6:25 am

    Your advice still apllies though. You still need to let him go, yes the situation is different but the outcome is slight similar, they are no longer in your lives they way they use to be


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    Re: The Relationship Thread

    Post by Něthing_At_All on Mon Jun 14, 2010 6:27 am

    Yeah, I know. I'm going to spend the summer living my life. And when he gets back, we're going to hang out as best friends, and nothing more.
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    Re: The Relationship Thread

    Post by Hopeless Heart on Mon Jun 14, 2010 6:31 am

    That sounds like a great holiday


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    Post by Něthing_At_All on Mon Jun 14, 2010 6:33 am

    It will be. It's already been amazing so far. I have no reason to sit around and be miserable. I need to fucking live, dammit!
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    Re: The Relationship Thread

    Post by Hopeless Heart on Mon Jun 14, 2010 6:34 am

    Yeah I should get around to that at sometime... meh I'll do it later I like being a nana


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    Re: The Relationship Thread

    Post by Něthing_At_All on Mon Jun 14, 2010 6:36 am

    Haha, I understand. I kind of want to just sit around and sleep and eat all summer. But I'd be even fatter by the end. Very Happy
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    Re: The Relationship Thread

    Post by Hopeless Heart on Mon Jun 14, 2010 6:38 am

    Lets move this to the WAYT since you are all better XD and so we can revive it a bit more XD


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    Re: The Relationship Thread

    Post by Něthing_At_All on Mon Jun 14, 2010 6:39 am

    Oh yeah! Let's go!
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    Re: The Relationship Thread

    Post by Slaughtermatic Sounds on Fri Jun 18, 2010 4:14 am

    Watching him get on that plane was the hardest thing I have ever done.
    I haven't been able to control my crying at all. I thought I would be able to deal so much better than this.


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    Re: The Relationship Thread

    Post by Něthing_At_All on Fri Jun 18, 2010 8:07 am

    Oh, I'm so sorry Rachel. :arms

    It's completely understandable to feel the way you do. But that doesn't make it any easier. We're here if you need us.
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    Post by Slaughtermatic Sounds on Fri Jun 18, 2010 9:14 am

    Thanks, I have been such a mess.
    I haven't been this sad before so don't understand how to cope with it.

    I just wish it was already a week from now so I could be done with the sadness and just look forward to him coming home.

    I will be fine by Monday, I'm going to mum's for the weeekend. Thank you, Em. Means a lot. Smile


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    Re: The Relationship Thread

    Post by Něthing_At_All on Sat Jun 19, 2010 1:22 am

    The only way to cope is to remember that things are going to get better. Keep your eyes on the future, okay?

    You can look forward to him coming home right now. That'll make it easier. Hope>Sadness.

    Being with your mom should help. I hope that you feel better soon. You're welcome Rachel. I'm just being a friend. Very Happy
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    Re: The Relationship Thread

    Post by Hopeless Heart on Sat Jun 19, 2010 7:39 am

    We're here for you Rachel like Em said.


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    Post by Slaughtermatic Sounds on Sat Jun 19, 2010 11:04 pm

    arms Thanks guys.

    He called me last night from Dubai. omg yes
    I think he leaves for Assghanistan tonight or tomorrow, can't remember.
    But it cheered me up knowing he can call quite frequently.


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    Re: The Relationship Thread

    Post by Něthing_At_All on Sun Jun 20, 2010 12:57 am

    You're welcome! Very Happy

    Yeah, hopefully you two can talk frequently. That should help make the separation easier.
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    Re: The Relationship Thread

    Post by Slaughtermatic Sounds on Sun Jun 20, 2010 11:16 am

    Another phone call later and I can safely say the worst is over.in love
    I'm done being sad he left, of course I'll still miss him, but now I'm just looking forward to him coming home. Thanks to you guys, just for being you guys and saying nice shit all the time. Makes things less bad. cute


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    Re: The Relationship Thread

    Post by Něthing_At_All on Sun Jun 20, 2010 6:02 pm

    I'm glad that I could help. You guys are always there for me when I need you, so I'd like to return the favor as best as I can. Very Happy

    And I'm glad you're looking forward instead of down. Very Happy
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    Re: The Relationship Thread

    Post by Hopeless Heart on Mon Jun 21, 2010 4:24 am

    What Em said
    Glad you ain't hauled up in bed with all the lights off and everything clossed


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