by Black And Purple Cloud Thu Jan 01, 2009 2:27 am
Only 19 but the oldest one here these days. Just so you know i hated high school till i was like 15. Before that i used to be nice to every one and let them walk all over me. But i got sick of it and snapped one day and havent looked back. I was a total bitch back to them if not more. They stopped being bitches to me and left me alone or were nicer to me. And i made new friends. It was good. Before that i was unhappy. Being a nice person can lead to you being unhappy.
by Black And Purple Cloud Thu Jan 01, 2009 2:33 am
You would be surprised. People will walk all over you if you let them. Dont i learnt this lesson. Seriously start fighting back. Its good for your self esteem. As for not having any friends you have nothing to loose by being a bitch back to them. Some of the girls who were meanest to me became good friends with me after i had eventually been so mean to them they stopped.
Its kind of like in maths where to negatives make a postive. You should try and if nothing else comes of it you will feel better in your self for stopping them treat you as a door mat
by Black And Purple Cloud Thu Jan 01, 2009 2:41 am
It grows on you. Combine being mean back when they are mean to you and combine it with your hopefully successful attempt at weightloss and 2009 might just turn into a better year for you.